9 Ways To Blow Your Chances With Your Ex Girlfriend

If the methods you have been using aren’t working, one strategy is to try a completely new approach. However, you have to be careful with what you do. The results could end up pushing your ex-girlfriend away instead of fixing your relationship.

If you want to get your ex-girlfriend back, then DO NOT do these nine things:

1 – Call her more than once before she calls you back. This will make you seem desperate and needy resulting in her probably blocking your number. If you do have to call her more than once before she calls you back, leave a simple message like “Hi, this is John, talk to you soon.” When you ramble on, again, it comes across as needy.

2 – Texting/Emailing her and telling her how much you love her and miss her. If you really want to piss her off, leave her a note on her windshield. Save that windshield note for the day AFTER you make up. That’s when you should be surprising her.

3 – Remind her frequently of things she said and promised you. For example, reminding her that she told you that she loved you. Your ex-girlfriend does not want to be reminded that she did something not so nice. Your ex-girlfriend does not want to feel cornered or feel like you are calling her a liar. Instead, she’ll frame in her mind that you make her feel bad about herself. This will convince her that it was a great idea to leave you.

4 – Follow/Stalk her or just show up at places you know she’ll be at. For example, showing up at her school and waiting for her outside of class or by her car. If you really want to anger your ex-girlfriend, show up at her apartment without her knowing that you were stopping by.

5 – Call her friends. Calling her friends and asking them to give her a message or asking them to put in a good word for you. This is a guaranteed way for her to start to hate you. Again, this will make you seem desperate and that’s not the message we want to send.

6 – Call her new boyfriend or love interest. This works in the movies but NEVER works in real life. The only result you’ll get is that she will start to hate you and resent you. This will embarrass your ex-girlfriend and no one likes to be embarrassed.

7 – Call her parents. Even if her parents love you, remember, your ex-girlfriend is still their daughter. Parents will always side with their children no matter what. This will always backfire on you resulting in driving your ex-girlfriend away.

8 – Try dating her best friend. This one more than the rest will guarantee you never get your ex-girlfriend back. Women see this as the biggest betrayal and the only result you’ll get is splitting two friends up. Even if you get back together, she’ll always blame you for causing her split with her best friend. Dating can be an effect tool, but it has to be done correctly.

9 – Call her workplace. When people are at work, they are rarely in a romantic or relationship frame of mind. Most people keep their personal life and work life very separate. By calling her at work, she will feel like you are stalking her. This will drive her further away.

There are correct ways to use some of the techniques above. When done correctly, they can give you a huge advantage. You can even get your ex-girlfriend back if she already has a boyfriend.

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